Sincerely, Nice Guys

Dear girls,

We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guys walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for 10 minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls or texts you, but at 2 am we do get a little concerned.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me.

You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the 1st place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are. Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful in her PJ's. Or just T-shirt, not all dolled up.

Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Adam Levine or Bradley Cooper is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

Girls, I can't stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change! Ditch his sorry ass, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect. Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'I love you'...and actually mean it.

Guys, repost this if you agree. Girls, repost this if you think it's cute.

Life is too short to complain about everything that comes your way to stop and smell the roses in life because you might never have another time to take it, so take your time because they're all different in every way, so take chances in life. If it doesn't work out then fine, there are always more roses to smell.

Sincerely, 

Nice Guys.

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I copied it around two years ago from my senior's blog, that actually she copied from 9GAG. I kept it on my file, and now I just want to post it, haha it's super sweet, ain't it? :p

Cerita: Menjadi Mahasiswa Baru

Hai!
Sudah dua bulan teman-teman!
Sudah dua bulan!
Saya menjadi mahasiswa. Huahahahaha.

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Setelah berperang dua tahun mengalami masa paling melelahkan dalam hidup saya (baca: SMA), akhirnya saya menjadi seorang mahasiswa. Saya ingat apa yang selalu dikatakan Papa saat aku dan kakakku dulu kelelahan menjalani masa SMA-nya, beliau bilang,

‘Sekolah paling susah itu SMA, semua pelajaran harus dipelajari, dan semua materinya sudah paling tinggi. Kalian ya harus belajar matematika, bahasa, ditambah lagi fisika, kimia, biologi. Nah, nanti, kalau sudah kuliah, sudah sana terserah kalian, masa paling membahagiakan, belajar ya fokus di satu bidang, mau kuliah boleh mau bolos boleh, masa paling bebas, tapi tetep harus tanggung-jawab. Yaudah sana belajar, Papa aja bisa lulus SMA, masak kalian ngga? Hahaha’
Yha Pa, Yha. Haha. Saya sudah khatam merasakan manis pahit sekolah menengah atas, ditambah sekolah saya tercinta, SMA Negeri 5 Surabaya yang semua anaknya aktif nan ambis, ditambah saya masuk kelas akselerasi, dua puluh anak didalamnya jauh lebih ambis lagi. Bisa survive saja rasanya sudah bahagia sekali. Hahaha. Namun, dibalik semua suka-DUKA masa SMA, teman-teman yang selalu menemani lah obatnya. Mereka lah yang menjadi penyeimbang, penyemangat, dan segala sumber kebahagiaan di SMA. Dari semua kebahagiaan saya akhirnya bisa lulus dari SMA, ada satu yang saya takutkan, saya takut tidak bisa bertemu dan memiliki teman yang, seperti kalian.
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Dan saat ini sudah bulan Oktober 2013, saya, Adelia Yulma Budiarto, sudah dua bulan mengarungi kehidupan menjadi mahasiswi S1 Akuntansi Fakultas Ekonomi dan Bisnis Universitas Airlangga angkatan 2013 melalui perjuangan jalur SBMPTN, Alhamdulillah.

Saya, sudah tidak takut lagi, apalagi menyesal. Satu hal yang saya takuti ketika ‘berpindah’ adalah saya bisa saja gagal beradaptasi. Namun sekarang, saya jatuh cinta terhadap lingkungan baru saya. Iya, mungkin masih terlalu dini, masih dua bulan, tapi paling tidak saya berhasil berdamai dengan diri dan lingkungan baru saya.

Saya sudah mengikuti serangkaian kegiatan ospek di skala universitas, fakultas, dan juga jurusan. Ospek jurusan memang meninggalkan lebih banyak bekas, tiga hari hidup di tengah hutan Cuban Rondo, bersama 350 teman seangkatan sejurusan dan segala tekanan dari panitia dan senior, sungguh menyenangkan! Hahaha. Saya sudah mengikuti delapan minggu perkuliahan, mempelajari materi-materi yang sangat asing bagi saya mengingat saya siswa IPA yang masuk Akuntansi, dan tergabung dalam sebuah kepanitiaan besar di BEM Fakultas. Sampai sekarang sih, semua masih baik-baik saja, namun beberapa hari lagi akan diadakan UTS saya yang pertama di perkuliahan. Mari kita lihat, apakah masih akan baik-baik saja atau tidak. Hahaha.

Jadi, saya senang dengan apa yang saya miliki sekarang. Sampai saat ini, saya masih setuju dengan kalimat Papa di atas haha. Terima kasih wajah-wajah baru yang mengisi hari-hari saya dua bulan ini dan beberapa tahun kedepan. Mari berproses!

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Adelia Budiarto

Missing The High School

"True terror is to wake up one morning and discover that your high school class is running the country.” 

I'm Sixteen Years Old University Student!

Hi world!

Alhamdulillah. I’m really glad I can still breathe today. Thank you Allah, The Most Mercious, you gave me great fifteen years before, and let me woke up today.

Today is July 25^th 2013,
which means, I am sixteen years old!

Nothing else I want to share or tell except how thankful I am right now, I am so blessed, I have super-caring family, always-in-my-side best friends, forever-happy-ridiculous  friends, and so on. All the time with you was so precious. Allah already gave me a great life. Seriously, right now I am sixteen and I am an accounting student in university. Not a school girl anymore! Hahaha.

And, thank you to you, whoever give me a happy birthday and give me your best wishes, I hope (for sure) all your wishes come true, amiiin.

And one more thing that made me happy, like you know, I have real best friends that I am so glad I met them, one when in elementary school, in junior high school, and other in high school. They’re so meaningful for my life, they’re kind of friend that always be here by my side when we’re in needed, always cheer me up, understand me though I’m not telling the whole problem, and they’re never asked for a kind of label to show us if we’re best friends, but we are right? Haha. They’re never asked for something, never asked for benefits. And they have their own way to show their love for me *wink* to congratulate my new age. Hahaha. One of them is the first one who told me happy birthday, other is the last one who told me happy birthday by sang a song, and the other made me a cute puppet video haha, idk. All I can say to you only thank you so much you guys come to my life and made me feel this experience, so glad I met you.

Because we are human, who always need another people to life with. Whatever how good you are, you do still need someone else to live your life. Be grateful, be nice, and be very best version of you.

Good day!

Help?

"hey dad look at me

think back and talk to me

did i grow up according to plan?

and do you think I'm wasting my time

doing things I wanna do?

but it hurts when you disapprove all along

and now I try hard make it

I just want to make you proud

i'm never gonna be good enough for you

i can't pretend that i'm alright"

Too much to tell, but don't know where to start. I thought that I was in my lowest point last week. full of tears and fears. i don't know. but then I open my eyes, ears, heart, and I realized that God always here beside me to keep my chin up.

By the lyrics above, it feels like sometimes only simple plan really know what I feel. because I try to talk someone, but actually no one really understands.

I still want you, how to keep me going through this hard times to get you?

Even maybe you don't understand what I am talking whoever you who read this, but from my deepest heart please pray the best for me, my life, my family, my next college application. Oh ya Allah, please make it easier for me to take place in my next college. Aamiin. Bismillahirrahmannirrahim.

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"and I hope you can't change me"